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Thursday, March 10, 2011

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Philophobia known as The Fear of Love

This anxiety disorder can affect a person's emotional and social life. In severe cases, a philophobic may not just avoid potential lovers, but anyone they may have an emotional connection to such as family, friends, co-workers and neighbors..
The word philophobia is Greek in origin and can be translated as “Fear of love” with “philo” being the Greek word for love and “phobia” translating to the fear of.

Do You Suffer From Philophobia?

Philophobia is the fear of being in love and falling in love. The risk is more acute, when you have confronted any emotional turmoil relating to love in the past.

Human life is very much fulfilling if filled with love, but jilted lovers are more likely to restrain from love.

Defining The Problem
Philophobia is defined as the abnormal, persistent and unwarranted fear of falling in love.

Every year, the phobia causes countless people needless distress and so many abstain from getting emotionally involved.

A restless feeling of being betrayed in love pricks you and unrests your mind. You do not feel emotionally secured in life. This eventually affects the quality of life and pushes you away from any sort of commitment.

It also triggers various symptoms in you that may incorporate sweating, irregular heartbeat, shortness of breath, feelings of dread, nausea and feeling of restlessness.

The worst thing about fear of being in love and falling in love is that it keeps you apart from your loved ones and drives you to a painful solitude.

You feel alone but every time a situation arises for commitment, you get panic attacks.

The symptoms are very irregular and vary from person to person. These include sweating, nausea, rapid breathing, shortness of breath, feelings of dread and extreme fear of not being able to live up to promises.

Reasons Giving Rise To The Problem
Bitter experiences of the past maybe a crucial reason why you do not want to get tangled into a relationship again.

You may fear rejection and that pose as a great reason of embarrassment that deters you from even getting involved with anyone.

The fear of divorce may be another reason why you may hate to fall in love and eventually get married.

Hence to be more precise, you may be suffering from philophobia and hate to get tangled in any sort of relationship, a burden of lifetime.

How To Cure Philophobia

Philophobia is an age-old phobic condition, which is quite difficult to overcome. This type of phobia is also known to all as the fear of love. It may be both – fear of falling in love or the fear of being in love.

For some falling in love is an emotional risk and if you are unsuccessful then the emotional bankruptcy you experience is too painful for you.

However, such an irrational state of fear tends to keep you away from the most valuable treasure of life – “LOVE”. You feel so nervous and insecure that you are afraid to search for your Mr. or Miss Right and enjoy the pleasure of being in love.

Often victims of philophobia tend to be shy. They cannot express their feelings nor do they give others a chance to reveal love.

Thus, they are deprived from this astounding treasure of love and worship. Victims of philophobia suffer extremely and as a result, they are in great distress.

Philophobia influences your quality of life to the extent that you are not in a position to behave normally. Everything seems boring and unpleasant to you. You lack that essential spice without which your life becomes flavorless and dull.

You don’t feel like working and you avoid mixing with your friends and colleagues. At home, your room becomes your entire world outside which everything seems irritating and uninteresting.

Common symptoms of philophobia

  • There is rapidity in breathing
  • Your breath becomes short
  • You suffer from nausea
  • You heart beat becomes irregular
  • You tend to perspire a lot
  • You start dreading everything

Most victims of philophobia do not want to enter a love association mainly because they had a former bad experience regarding love and intense relationships. They are afraid of the history being repeated.

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Love is the sweetest experience that a soul experiences ..
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It is one experience that puts the soul on eternal peace.
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