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Tuesday, September 27, 2011

Akan Ku Tunggu Pinangan Dari Kamu

Jangan engkau puja puji kami bila pujianmu hanyalah janji-janji yang tak menentu. Hanya membuatku terlena dan terbuai hingga kami lupa bahawa kita sedang bermaksiat. Kau puji diriku,tapi kau hanya ingin membuatku tersenyum dan makin terbuai rayuanmu. Tidak.. tidak akhi, kami ingin kau puji setelah kau halal bagiku. Maka datangilah waliku akhi.. ku tunggu pinanganmu..
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Tak akan kami langgar iffah ku dengan ajakan khalwat dari mu.
Engkaupun sebenarnya tahu,hal itu hanya akan menimbulkan badai kelabu yang membuat kita tak berdaya kerana pihak ketiga yang tak lain syaitan yang ada di dekat kita. Maka datangilah waliku akhi.. ku tunggu pinanganmu..
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Jagalah sikapmu pada kami, maka akan kami jaga sikapku padamu,kami lemah akan sanjunganmu. Kecintaan ini ingin kami persembahkan kelak untuk suami, cinta nan kasih ini yang akan kami tuai untuk mencari ke redhaan suami kelak. Jadi bagaimana mungkin kami mencinta pada hal yang tidak halal bagi kami, tentu Allah tak akan pernah ridha pada kami. Maka datangilah waliku akhi.. ku tunggu pinanganmu..
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Jilbabku untuk melindungi kehormatan kami, santun kami untuk menjaga iffah . Jangan kau lenakan kami agar kami lepas kan kehormatan di hadapanmu sebelum engkau halal bagi kami. kami ingin engkau ikut menjaga kehormatan kami dengan menjaga kami, bukan malah membawa pada kenistaan. Agar kau mampu menjaga kami secara utuh, Maka datangilah waliku akhi.. ku tunggu pinanganmu..
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kami memang tak sesempurna Aisyah dalam kecerdasannya ataupun Fatimah dengan kelembutannya. Tapi kami akan berusaha cerdas layaknya Aisyah dalam naunganmu dan kami akan berusaha selembut Fatimah dalam menenangkanmu. Maka datangilah waliku akhi.. ku tunggu pinanganmu..
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Kau memang tak sehebat Ali ataupun sekuat Umar, tetapi kau akan menjadi hebat seperti Ali ketika kau menjaga kami dalam kelemahan kami dan kau akan sekuat Umar agar kami tidak selalu menjadi tulang yang bengkok. Kami memerlukan imam yang boleh menjaga keimanan, bukan yang mebawa kami pada jurang maksiat. Maka datangilah waliku akhi.. ku tunggu pinanganmu..
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Sungguh, kami memang tidak mampu menahan kala kami jatuh hati,tetapi kami tak akan mempertaruh pesona kami hanya kerana cinta yang menuntut nafsu pada keramahan syaitan pada kami. Bukanlah jatuh cinta bila kau ajak kami pada kemaksiatan. Bila kau memang jatuh cinta pada kami, jangan kau bebankan deritamu pada hati yang akan menuntutmu untuk berbuat nista. Izinkan kami menjaga hatimu, agar kita boleh menjelang bersama JannahNya. Maka datangilah waliku akhi..ku tunggu pinanganmu..

bukan penulis asal
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baca yang nih pula...menarik..
perkawinan vs pernikahan...




notakakikudibibirmu...

tunggu pinangan awk.....
bakal suamiku....
lalallalallal =p

Tips :Mengorat JEJAKA pujaan

So you have been texting a guy that you like and you want him to know that you like him, but you don't want to be overly obvious?

Well, here is how.....




1) DON'T text him all of the time. It may seem like it will have the opposite effect, but it really won't. If you text him too much he will get really annoyed and you wont stand a chance. So text him once a day at the most and only about 4 or 5 days a week - then you won't come across as needy.

2) Have things to talk about. Before texting him, it is a good idea to have topics in mind so the conversation doesn't go dry. So talk about skool ,college stuff ..anything, or what you did over the weekend, and random things (like a food that you recently ate but didn't like).

3) Keep the conversation light. Yeah, it is good to have an intellectual debate every now and again, but not all the time. The lighter the conversation, the more natural it will feel. It also creates more opportunities for being flirty.....but avoid being B****

4) Be positive. This applies to every situation, not just texting. Don't go on about annoying parents or whatever, because he will run a mile.

5) Use emoticons...smiley etc ... They are a great way to express emotion, lighten the mood, and show when you are being flirtatious. If you want to come across as being flirty use ;-) a lot.

6) Slip in compliments. But make sure that they aren't too direct. For example, if you have been watching IMAM MUDA/INDE competition ... and you know that he is into that particular tv prog interest...
do discuss how interesting it was....

7) Be yourself. It is the most important one. Don't try and be someone who you are not. Text things that you will actually say in person....

be a TOMBOY but still keep ur FEMININ stuff ...okeyh...

btw nih sambungan.....topik nih..apa yang lelaki tgk daripada perempuan....




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hidup biar bermaruah...
pelihara lah ia untuk org sepatutnya...
jangan sampai nafsu membataskan
akal....peace ya..!!!
tak salah pun
perigi cari timba...
as long with the right way.....
with the right attitude...

Sara Bareilles - Gonna Get Over You

Goodbye
Should be saying that to you by now, shouldn't I?
Laying down a law that I live by
Well, maybe next time

I've got a thick tongue
Brimming with the words that go unsung
I simmer then I burn for a someone
The wrong one

And I tell myself to let the story end
That my heart will rest in someone else's hand
But my 'Why not me?' philosophy began
And I said

Ooh, how am I gonna get over you?
I'll be alright
Just not tonight
But someday

Oh, I wish you'd want me to stay
I'll be alright
Just not tonight
But someday

Maybe
It's a vicious little word that can slay me
Keep me where I'm hurting, you make me
Hang from your hands

But no more
I won't beg to buy a shot at your back door
If I'm aching at the thought of you, what for?
That's not me anymore

And I'm not the girl that I intend to be
But I dare you, darlin', just you wait and see
But this time not for you, but just for me
I said

Ooh, how am I gonna get over you?
I'll be alright
Just not tonight
But someday

Oh, I wish you'd want me to stay
I'll be alright
Just not tonight
But someday

Say it's coming soon
Someday without you
All I can do
Is get me past the ghost of you

Wave goodbye to me
I won't say I'm sorry
I'll be alright
Once I find the other side of someday

Ooh, how am I gonna get over you?
I'll be alright
Just not tonight
But someday

Oh, I wish you'd want me to stay
I'll be alright
Just not tonight
But someday



these lyrics are submitted by mta_mta
these lyrics are last corrected by Esra Nyx

notakakikudibibirmu

yes YOU..
i'll get over u...
And I tell myself to let the story end
That my heart will rest in someone else's hand

Kelly Clarkson - Mr. Know It All

Kelly Clarkson – Mr. Know It All Lyrics

Mr. Know It All
Well ya think you know it all
But ya don’t know a thing at all
Ain’t it something y’all
When somebody tells you something bout you
Think that they know you more than you do
So you take it down another pill to swallow

Mr. Bring Me Down
Well ya like to bring me down, don’t ya
But I ain’t laying down
Baby I ain’t going down
Can’t nobody tell me how it’s gonna be
Nobody’s gonna make a fool out of me
Baby you should know that I lead not follow

[Chorus]
Oh you think that you know me, know me
That’s why I’m leaving you lonely, lonely
Cause baby you don’t know a thing about me
You don’t know a thing about me

You ain’t got the right to tell me
When and where to go, no right to tell me
Acting like you own me lately
Yeah baby you don’t know a thing about me
You don’t know a thing about me

Mr. Play Your Games
Only got yourself to blame
When you want me back again
But I ain’t fallin back again

Cause I’m livin’ my truth without your lies
Let’s be clear baby, this is goodbye
I ain’t comin’ back tomorrow

[Chorus]
Oh you think that you know me, know me
That’s why I’m leaving you lonely, lonely
Cause baby you don’t know a thing about me
You don’t know a thing about me

You ain’t got the right to tell me
When and where to go, no right to tell me
Acting like you own me lately
Yeah baby you don’t know a thing about me
You don’t know a thing about me

So what, you’ve got the world at your feet
And you know everything about everything
But you don’t
You still think I’m comin’ back but baby you’ll see

[Chorus]
Oh you think that you know me, know me
That’s why I’m leaving you lonely, lonely
Cause baby you don’t know a thing about me
You don’t know a thing about me

You ain’t got the right to tell me
When and where to go, no right to tell me
Acting like you own me lately
Yeah baby you don’t know a thing about me
You don’t know a thing about me

Mr. Know It All
Well ya think you know it all
But ya don’t know a thing at all
Yeah baby you don’t know a thing about me
You don’t know a thing about me








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Yeah baby you don’t know a thing about me
You don’t know a thing about me

Sunday, September 25, 2011

what do guys look for in girls ?

“what do guys look for in girls?” . Obviously no girl can win every guy over, but if you follow this advice you can certainly attract a good number of them.....






1. Don't be a b*tch.

This is the most important thing you can do. The truth of the matter is, most girls are b*tches nowdays... If you can make sure to not be one, you’re already way ahead of the game. Be laid-back and not moody. Don’t take yourself too seriously and learn to laugh a lot. Don’t expect the guy to pay for absolutely everything. Don’t gossip or talk trash about people around guys, most of them hate that. Don’t put down the guys you’re interested in. Most importantly, smile, be positive, and have fun with guys! It will make them love spending time with you.

2. Show interest, but don’t be clingy.

You’re supposed to play hard to get right? Wrong! You shouldn’t “play” anything (this will be expanded upon in point #3). If you don’t show any interest in a guy, he’ll assume that you’re not interested and he’ll move on to someone who is. Makes sense right? But at the same time, you don’t want to be a “stage 5 clinger” either. First of all, it makes you look desperate. Second of all, guys have lives of their own and they don’t want to have it being constantly interrupted. So how do you find the balance?

DO initiate contact sometimes, get to know him better, flirt, make eye contact, smile at him, and laugh at his jokes. DON'T text/call him 24/7 (contact him if you have something to talk about, but don’t text him 40 times a day for no reason), expect to see him every single day.

And if you’re in a relationship, don’t act jealous when he talks to his female friends, try to control him, or keep him from seeing his friends. One of the number one fears guys have about being in a relationship is losing his independence. Respect his space. He'll appreciate you more for it.

3. Be true to yourself and don’t play games.

This is another big one and you want to keep it in mind while looking at all the other guidelines. Don’t do anything you’re not comfortable with. Don’t pretend to like something if you really don’t. Don’t say you’ve done something if you never have. Why is this so important? First of all, guys appreciate honesty. If they find out that you lied to them early in the relationship in order to snag them it’s going to diminish their trust in you, and you don’t want that! Second of all, if you attract a guy by feeding him false information, when he finds out the truth he may not find you attractive anymore which can only lead to hurt feelings for you. When you attract a guy by being yourself you know that he likes you for who you are, no more, no less. It also helps to build a strong foundation of trust.

"One of the fears guys have about being in a relationship is losing his independence.
Respect his space. He'll appreciate you more for it."


4. Be open minded.

Don’t be afraid to try new things. If you try something and you don’t like it, then just don’t do it again. But at least you can honestly say you have it a shot and guys will respect that about you. Also, don’t give guys the evil eye for liking something you don’t, unless it’s something you’re extremely morally opposed to. But if that’s the case, you probably just shouldn’t date that guy.

5. Be a tomboy, but maintain your femininity.

What does this mean? It’s important to strike a balance here. Look like a girl and be in touch with your emotions, but also be able to act like one of the guys. You don’t want to dress like a dude and walk around belching the alphabet. What you do want to do is get into some “guy” things. Maybe it’s video games (the Sims doesn’t count), maybe it’s sports, maybe it’s hunting and fishing, maybe it’s computers, maybe it’s all of those or something else entirely. But try to find at least one thing that interests you and get into it. The more of those things that you can enjoy, the more attractive it makes you. Guys love it when they find a girl whom they actually have things in common with. And don’t forget rule #3!

For instance, these are the things I enjoy: video games, computers, cars, guns, and fishing (not hunting though).

6. Look your best.

This doesn’t mean that you have to look like a model, or use so much makeup that you could apply it with a spackle knife (please don’t do that). What this does mean, is keep yourself clean and well groomed. Wear clothes that you’re comfortable in and that accentuate your best features. If you enjoy wearing makeup then great, put it on! Just don’t overdo it and walk out of the house looking like Lady GaGa. Most guys prefer subtlety when it comes to makeup. If you don’t like makeup, then don’t wear it. I don’t wear makeup most of the time myself. And if you want to attract a guy for more than just sex, don’t wear anything too revealing.

7. Show confidence.

This does not mean flaunt yourself around like you’re the queen of the world. Be sure of who you are and don’t be ashamed of it. Don’t put yourself down. Don’t expect a guy to fix all the problems in your life or make you feel better about yourself. Of course you want a guy who appreciates you and compliments you, but don’t expect it to be his responsibility to make you feel good about yourself. You should be able to do that on your own. If you can’t be happy on your own, you’re not ready for a healthy relationship.

8. Have a hobby.

This shows men that you have a certain level of independence, which is very attractive to most. It will also give you something to do while you’re not with your guy, which helps keep you from becoming too clingy. It doesn’t matter what it is, as long as it’s something you can enjoy on your own.

"If you can’t be happy on your own, you’re not ready for a healthy relationship."



9. Show off what makes you unique.

It doesn’t have to be anything fancy. Maybe it’s your hobby. Maybe you have a unique outlook on the universe. Maybe you climbed Mt. Everest. Just know what sets you apart from most other girls or people in general and be proud of it! It makes you more interesting, and it’s those aspects of you that are irreplaceable.


10. Know how to cook and/or bake.

“The way to a man’s heart is through his stomach.” You hear this old adage all the time, and it’s true. I don’t know a single guy who doesn’t like food. Guys love it when girls cook for them. You don’t have to cook a full three course meal for him every night, but if you know your way around a kitchen enough to cook him his favorite treat or meal, it’s very attractive. What can you do if you absolutely cannot or hate to cook? Find out what his favorite processed foods and snacks are and surprise him with them. It’s not quite as magical, but it will still warm his heart.



notakakikudibibirmu...

just can't get enough...
share tips from the net...for u all :) to read...
i'm not the writter...
i'm juz a poet :p.....sumtimes
i do mumbling a lots ngeee..~
too tired 2 mumbling..
so i did copy paste..

Friday, September 23, 2011

Ayat Kursi paling agung dalam Al-Quran

Ayat Kursi paling agung dalam Al-Quran



Oleh ABDUL RASHID AHMAD
Jabatan al-Quran dan al-Hadis, Akademi Pengajian Islam Universiti Malaya

FIRMAN Allah bermaksud: "Allah, tiada Tuhan (yang berhak disembah) melainkan Dia Yang Hidup kekal lagi terus menerus mengurus (makhluk-Nya); tidak mengantuk dan tidak tidur. Keupayaan-Nya apa yang di langit dan di bumi. Tiada yang dapat memberi syafaat di sisi Allah tanpa izin-Nya. Allah mengetahui apa yang di hadapan dan di belakang mereka dan mereka tidak mengetahui apa pun daripada ilmu Allah melainkan apa yang dikehendaki-Nya. Kursi Allah meliputi langit dan bumi. Dan Allah tidak merasa berat memelihara kedua-duanya dan Allah Maha Tinggi lagi Maha Besar" (al-Baqarah: 255).

Ayat ini dikenali sebagai ayat Kursi, ayat yang paling agung dalam al-Quran, malah ia disebut sebagai penghulu bagi seluruh ayat al-Quran. Dari segi sejarahnya, ia diturunkan pada waktu malam. Pada ketika itu juga Nabi memanggil Zaid selaku penulis wahyu untuk menulisnya.

Dalam ayat yang pendek ini sebenarnya terkumpul sifat utama bagi Allah iaitu ketuhanan, keesaan, hidup, ilmu, memiliki kerajaan, kekuasaan dan kehendak.

Sesudah menegaskan mengenai keesaan-Nya, disusuli pula dengan menyebut dua sifat-Nya yang lain, iaitu hidup dan terus menerus mengurus makhluk-Nya.

Dengan demikian, manusia akan merasa aman dalam hidup serta tenang perasaannya kerana meyakini bahawa dia di dalam tangan Tuhan yang hidup, yang terus menerus mengurus serta mengawal jaga keadaan hamba-Nya.

Allah, Dia-lah Tuhan yang tunggal bagi segala makhluk. Oleh itu, tiada yang berhak disembah dalam kehidupan ini melainkan Dia. Segala apa yang ada di langit dan bumi adalah hamba dan milik-Nya. Semuanya tunduk di bawah kehendak dan kuasa-Nya, seperti firman Allah bermaksud: "Tidak seorang pun di langit dan bumi, kecuali akan datang kepada Tuhan Yang Maha Pemurah selaku seorang hamba. Sesungguhnya Allah menentukan jumlah mereka dan menghitung mereka dengan hitungan yang teliti. Dan setiap mereka akan datang kepada Allah pada hari kiamat dengan sendiri-sendiri" (Maryam: 93-95).

Di antara tanda keagungan dan kebesaran Allah bahawa tiada seorang pun yang berani memberi pertolongan kepada seorang lain di sisi-Nya tanpa izin-Nya. Firman Allah bermaksud: "Ketika datang hari itu, tidak seorang pun berbicara, melainkan dengan izin-Nya; maka di antara mereka ada yang celaka dan ada yang berbahagia" (Hud: 105).

Ilmu Allah amat luas, meliputi segala makhluk ciptaan-Nya, baik yang dahulu, sekarang dan akan datang, bahkan Allah mengetahui segala urusan dunia dan akhirat. Allah juga amat luas kerajaan dan kekuasaan-Nya, langit dan bumi seluruhnya di dalam genggaman-Nya.

Itulah ayat yang mengandungi kaedah pembentukan keimanan terhadap Allah. Dari sinilah terbina hala tuju pengabdian seseorang hanya kepada Allah.

Dengan demikian, tidaklah seorang manusia melainkan menjadi hamba, hanya kepada Allah, tidaklah dia menjuruskan pengabdiannya melainkan kepada Allah dan tidaklah dia menyerahkan ketaatannya melainkan kepada Allah.

Selain itu, ayat ini mempunyai beberapa kelebihan yang tidak ada pada ayat lain. Daripada kedudukannya dalam al-Quran, sabda nabi ketika ditanya oleh Abu Zar: "Ayat manakah yang diturunkan kepadamu yang paling agung?" Jawab baginda: "Ia adalah ayat Kursi" (riwayat Imam Ahmad, al-Nasai, al-Hakim dan al-Baihaqi).

Daripada sudut keberkatannya di dunia, sabda Rasulullah: "Bacalah ayat Kursi kerana sesungguhnya ia mengawal jaga kamu, zuriat dan rumah tangga kamu sehingga bilik kecil di sekeliling rumahmu."

Dari segi keberkatannya dalam menghalau syaitan, sabda Rasulullah: "Di dalam surah al-Baqarah, ada satu ayat yang menjadi penghulu bagi ayat al-Quran, tidak dibacanya dalam rumah yang ada di dalamnya syaitan melainkan keluar ia daripadanya, itulah ayat Kursi" (riwayat al-Hakim).

Sabda Rasulullah: "Sesiapa yang membaca ayat Kursi selepas setiap solat fardu, Allah akan memberikannya hati orang yang bersyukur, amalan orang yang membenarkan Allah, pahala nabi-nabi, melimpahkan rahmat-Nya dan tidak menghalangnya daripada masuk syurga melainkan kematian yang akan memasukkannya" (riwayat al-Nasai).

sumber : lengangkangkung

notakakikudibibirmu

sekadar berkongsi..
apa yang dibaca....
untuk tazkirah jumaat

kalau ade silap..
sila tegur :)

Duhai Hatiku.....



Duhai hatiku…

Setiakah kamu….

Duhai hatiku..

Ikhlaskah kamu……

Mataku katakan lupakan…

Hatiku katakan jangan….

Perjalanan masih kuteruskan..

Biarpun Nampak bersempadan…

Mampukah hatiku bertahan….


Duhai cintaku mengapa kau berjauhan..

Duhai rinduku mengapa kau meninggalkan….

Hati yang kini kesepian..

Jiwa yang berantakan….

Monolog hati puas cuba ku leraikan….


Dimana cinta…

Dimana kebahgiaan….

Ku leraikan dalam dakapan…

Indah namun tidak berkesempatan…

Tawaku hanya dalam tangisan….


by LT ..




notakakikudibibirmu

i should done it earlier...

terbaca latest issue..
pendapat hanis ..zalikha..
refer sini...

yes...agree with her..

'' choose to keep love life private ''

thats why...there is no name..include..
delete everything..
that mess up..

so far mmg suka bermadah...
tak suka tayang gambar boyfie...
setiap org ade prinsip kan..;)
me too...

Friday, September 16, 2011

Ziarah -menziarahi lah kamu.....




Nabi saw. bersabda, "Sesungguhnya seorang lelaki telah menziarahi saudaranya di kampung lain. Maka Allah Taala menghantar malaikat untuk mengintip perjalanannya. Apabila lelaki itu melalui jalan yang ditunggui oleh malaikat itu, malaikat itu bertanya; Ke mana kamu ingin pergi? Dia berkata: Aku ingin pergi bertemu saudaraku di kampung ini. Malaikat bertanya; Adakah bagi kamu ada apa-apa tujuan daripada nikmat yang akan kamu perolehi darinya? Lelaki itu menjawab: Tidak, melainkan kerana aku menyayanginya kerana Allah Taala. Lalu malaikat itu berkata: Sesungguhnya aku merupakan utusan Allah kepadamu untuk menyampaikan bahawa Allah Taala menyayangimu sebagaimana kamu menyayangi saudaramu keranaNya” (HR Muslim)

Dari Ali r.a katanya: Aku mendengar Rasulullah s.a.w bersabda: " Apabila seseorang telah menziarahi saudara seislamya, sebenarnya dia telah berjalan-jalan memetik buahan syurga sehinggalah dia duduk. Apabila dia duduk maka rahmat menaunginya. Jika di di waktu pagi maka 70, 000 malaikat berselawat ( berdoa memohon ampun ) untuknya sehingga waktu petang. Jika di waktu petang, maka 70,000 berselawat ( berdoa memohon ampun ) untuknya sehingga waktu pagi ". (HR Ibnu Majah, Abu Dawud)


"Tidaklah sedekah itu mengurangi harta, dan tidaklah Allah menambah bagi seorang hamba dengan sifat memaafkan kecuali kemuliaan, serta tidaklah seorang hamba merendahkan diri karena Allah melainkan Allah meninggikan darjatnya". (HR. Muslim)

Nabi s.a.w bersabda, "Orang yang paling sabar diantara kamu ialah orang yang memaafkan kesalahan orang lain padahal dia berkuasa untuk membalasnya." (Riwayat Ibnu Abiduyya dan Baihaqi)

masih mood raya ....
selamat hari raya..
maaf zahir dan batin...yep

Nabi bersabda, "Tidaklah seorang itu suka memaafkan, melainkan dia akan semakin mulia." [HR. Muslim]

Allah berfirman, ”Dan bersegeralah kamu kepada ampunan Tuhanmu dan kepada syurga yang luasnya seluas langit dan bumi yang disediakan untuk orang-orang yang bertakwa, iaitu orang-orang yang menafkahkan hartanya di waktu senang maupun di waktu sempit, dan orang-orang yang menahan marah dan memaafkan kesalahan orang. Allah suka kepada orang yang berbuat kebajikan.” (Ali Imran : 133-134)

sumber :lenggangkangkung

notakakikudibibirmu

sekadar renungan kita
untuk hari jumaat ini :)

its sad but its TRUE...: I'm Such A Quiet Loner



it juz another CHAPTER......
of my life story..
Another thorn that make me bleed...
Do not mistake me for what I am not..
Do not see hidden meaning in what I am
And shown what none have seen before. ..
cuz the truth....
I could't understand you are sending the words..
through the air for me to listen ...
But I don't understand the message....
and i still ...
trying to listen with more than my ears..
and I trying to see with more than my eyes..
But I can't seem to decode ...
but now it seem...
the question running through this vain..
Where am I going?
What am I Doing?
Walking in the crowd, Alone....
With lots of friends via net ..
sincerity always be my question mark
But none a soul...
Who'll be there for me to console...
the truth is....
This is written,
For you to read,
To know what it's like...
to reveal....that
I'm Such A Quiet Loner....


..


notakakikudibibirmu

Tears won't fall,
Smiles have gone,
Is there anyone there...n here??
No, i'm the only one...
urmm...its sad but its TRUE


Thursday, September 15, 2011

Cinta tidak perlukan sebab


Gadis: Mengapa awak menyukai saya? Mengapa awak cintakan saya?

Jejaka: Saya tidak boleh menerangkan sebabnya, namun begitu saya memang menyayangi dan mencintai awak!

Gadis: Awak tak boleh terangkan sebabnya? Bagaimana awak boleh katakan awak sayang dan cintakan saya sedangkan awak tidak boleh menerangkannya.

Jejaka: Betul! Saya tak tahu sebabnya tetapi saya boleh buktikan bahawa saya memang cintakan awak!

Gadis: Tak boleh beri bukti! Saya nak awak terangkan kepada saya sebabnya. Kawan-kawan saya yang lain yang mempunyai suami dan teman lelaki, semuanya tahu menerangkan mengapa mereka mencintai. Dalam bentuk puisi dan syair lagi. Tapi, kenapa pula awak tak boleh terangkan sebabnya?

Si Jejaka menarik nafas panjang dan dia berkata..

Jejaka: Baiklah! Saya mencintai awak sebab awak cantik, comel, mempunyai suara yang merdu, penyayang, kelakar, dan sentiasa merindui saya. Saya juga sukakan senyuman manis dan setiap tapak awak melangkah, di situlah cinta saya bersama awak!

Si Gadis tersenyum dan berpuas hati dengan penerangan Si Jejaka tadi. Namun begitu selang beberapa hari si Gadis mengalami kemalangan dan koma.

Si Jejaka amat bersedih. Di wad hospital, Si Jejaka menangis di tepi katil Si Gadis sambil berbisik..

“Awak! Jika disebabkan suara, saya mencintai awak.. Sekarang bolehkah awak bersuara? Tidak! Oleh itu saya tidak boleh mencintai awak kerana sekarang awak tidak dapat bersuara.

Jika disebabkan kasih sayang dan senda gurau, saya mencintai awak.. Sekarang bolehkah awak menunjukkannya? Tidak! Oleh itu saya tidak boleh mencintai awak ketika ini.

Jika disebabkan senyuman saya mencintai awak.. Sekarang bolehkah awak tersenyum? Tidak! Oleh itu saya tidak boleh mencintai awak. Jika disebabkan setiap langkah saya mencintai awak.. Sekarang bolehkah awak melangkah? Tidak! Oleh itu saya tidak boleh mencintai awak.

Jika cinta memerlukan sebabnya, seperti sekarang. Saya tidak mempunyai sebab untuk mencintai awak lagi. Adakah cinta memerlukan sebab? Tidak! Saya masih mencintai awak dulu, kini dan selamanya.

“Cinta tidak perlu ada sebab. Cinta lahir dari hati yang ikhlas. Saya terima awak seadanya. Kadangkala perkara tercantik dan terbaik di dunia tidak boleh dilihat dan dipegang. Namun begitu. Ia boleh dirasai dalam hati..”


pernah baca kat tempat lain sumber sebenar tak dpt kenal pasti ..

aperpun sekadar perkongsian :)

bukan penulis ...asal


notakakikudibibirmu...

cinta itu mcm2 rasa...

Ujian dariMU membunuhku mengapa ???



Hadis Rasulullah s.a.w bersabda yang bermaksud;

“Amat menakjubkan sikap seorang mukmin yang sentiasa memandang baik terhadap segala sesuatu di sekelilingnya. Apabila seorang mukmin itu beroleh kebaikan, dia terus memuji dan bersyukur kepada Allah. Jika dia ditimpa keburukan, maka dia pun memuji Allah dan bersabar menghadapinya dan ini pun baik baginya. Seseorang mukmin akan tetap diberi pahala atas setiap amalan yang dilakukannya sehingga diberikan pahala terhadap makanan yang disuapkan ke dalam mulut isterinya.”

(Riwayat Ahmad & Abu Daud)

KENAPA AKU DIUJI?
Apakah manusia itu mengira bahwa mereka dibiarkan (saja)
mengatakan:”Kami telah beriman”, sedang mereka tidak diuji lagi? Dan
sesungguhnya Kami telah menguji orang-orang sebelum mereka, maka
sesungguhnya Allah mengetahui orang-orang yang benar dan
sesungguhnya Dia mengetahui orang-orang yang dusta ~ Surah Al-Ankabut
ayat 2-3

KENAPA AKU TIDAK MENDAPATKAN APA YANG AKU IDAM-IDAMKAN?
Boleh jadi kamu membenci sesuatu, padahal ia amat baik bagimu, dan
boleh jadi (pula) kamu menyukai sesuatu padahal ia amat buruk bagimu;
Allah mengetahui, sedang kamu tidak mengetahui ~ Surah Al-Baqarah
ayat 216

KENAPA UJIAN SEBERAT INI?
Allah tidak membebani seseorang melainkan sesuai dengan
kesanggupannya ~ Surah Al-Baqarah ayat 286

RASA KECEWA?
Janganlah kamu bersikap lemah, dan janganlah (pula) kamu bersedih
hati, padahal kamulah orang-orang yang paling tinggi (derajatnya),
jika kamu orang-orang yang beriman ~ Surah Al-Imran ayat 139

BAGAIMANA AKU HARUS MENGHADAPINYA?
Hai orang-orang yang beriman, bersabarlah kamu dan kuatkanlah
kesabaranmu dan tetaplah bersiap siaga (di perbatasan negerimu) dan
bertaqwalah kepada Allah supaya kamu beruntung. ~ Surah Al-Imran
ayat 200

Jadikanlah sabar dan shalat sebagai penolongmu. Dan sesungguhnya yang
demikian itu sungguh berat, kecuali bagi orang-orang yang khusyu’, ~
Surah Al-Baqarah ayat 45

APA YANG AKU DAPAT DARI SEMUA INI?
Sesungguhnya Allah telah membeli dari orang-orang mu’min, diri dan
harta mereka dengan memberikan surga untuk mereka. ~ Surah At-Taubah
ayat 111

KEPADA SIAPA AKU BERHARAP?
Cukuplah Allah bagiku; tidak ada Ilah selain Dia. Hanya kepada-Nya
aku bertawakal ~ Surah At-Taubah ayat 129

AKU TAK DAPAT BERTAHAN LAGI!!!!!
..dan jangan kamu berputus asa dari rahmat Allah. Sesungguhnya tiada
berputus asa dari rahmat Allah, melainkan kaum yang kafir. ~ Surah
Yusuf ayat 87


sumber :pakarcinta


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dugaan itu ujianNYA

kerana sayangnya DIA

pada kita

Tuesday, September 13, 2011

Adakah Jodoh Pertemuan telah Ditentukan?



Jodoh, rezeki dan ajal merupakan ketentuan yang ditulis di Luh Mahfuz. Jodoh juga boleh diikhtiarkan dengan doa. Doa yang dibawa naik makbul maka akan berlakulah jodoh dengan izin Allah taala... ."
"jodoh pertemuan ditangan Tuhan", "Ajal Maut ditangan Tuhan", sebenarnya berkait rapat dgn pemahaman kita ttg taqdir, yg dibelakangnya ialah keimanan kita pada qada' dan qadar .

Bagi D...
Jodoh ni adalah kurniaanNYA..
penceraian adelah perkara
yang HALAL namun dibenci olehNYA...
sbb org yg bercerai ni bukan Allah SWT yg tentukan... .tapi kita sendiri yang mahukan... mungkin dah give up..tak bersyukur dgn apa yg yg diberi oleh Nya..Kalau mereka berusaha utk menyelamat kan Jodoh mereka dah tentu akan kekal...
bagi d jodoh tuh..adelah..termeteraikan ...
ungkapan aku terima NIKAHNYA... ... ... .
akad dan nikah... ..

dan bukan sekdar sy SAYANG awk... bla bla bla... .

sekadar renungan bersama...

"Dan kamu tidak dapat menentukan kemahuan kamu (mengenai sesuatupun) kecuali dengan cara yg diatur Allah, Tuhan yg memelihara dan mentadbirkan seluruh alam "
At-Takwiir 29

"Sesungguhnya Allah tidak akan mengubah nasib suatu kaum kecuali kaum itu sendiri yang mengubah diri mereka." - Ar-Ra'd 11.

Sabda Rasullullah s.a.w
"Sebaik perkara itu ialah pertengahan"

INFO extra : Takrif Nikah

i) Dari segi bahasa : Ikatan atau simpulan.
ii) Dari segi istilah Syarak : Suatu Ikatan atau akad yang menghalalkan pergaulan dan membatas hak dan kewajipan serta bertolong-tolong di antara seorang lelaki dengan seorang perempuan yang di antara keduanya bukan mahram.

2. Perkahwinan adalah merupakan sunnah Rasulullah s.a.w. dan digalakkan di dalam Islam serta dituntut oleh Hukum Syarak, sebagaimana sabda Rasulullah s.a.w. yang bermaksud :

" Nikah itu adalah sunnahku, maka sesiapa yang benci sunnahku maka sesungguhnya ia bukan dari golonganku ". ( Riwayat Ibnu Majah )

3. Dalil yang menunjukkan bahawa perkahwinan itu dituntut oleh syarak adalah seperti berikut :

* Dalil dari Al-Quran yang bermaksud :

"Maka berkahwinlah dengan sesiapa yang kamu berkenan dari perempuan-perempuan lain dua, tiga atau empat. Kemudian jika kamu bimbang tidak akan berlaku adil( di antara isteri-isteri kamu) maka berkahwinlah dengan seorang sahaja". ( Surah An - Nisaa' - Ayat 3 )

Dalil dari As-sunnah yang bermaksud:

"Wahai pemuda-pemuda, sesiapa yang mampu di antara kamu (mempunyai belanja serta keinginan) hendak berkahwin, hendaklah ia kahwin, kerana sesungguhnya perkahwinan itu akan memejamkan matanya (terhadap orang yang tidak halal dilihatnya) dan terkawal kehormatannya dan sesiapa yang tidak mampu berkahwin hendaklah ia berpuasa, bahawa puasa itu menjadi benteng". ( Riwayat Muslim )

Jadi kesimpulannya dalam soal jodoh/maut/rezeki ini kita manusia perlu berusaha .. ttg terjadinya ia atau tidak, maka itu terserah pada keputusan Allah s.w.t .. atas izinNya ..

sumber hadis : google ,iluvislam...etc

yang baik datang dariNYA
yang jelik datang dariku ...

Sekian Wallahu'alam.

psst :
JODOH..mencari atau menunggu???
amu decide...okeyh




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mendirikan masjid itu ibadah..
dan jugak sunnah :)

I love him/her but can’t have him / Her


Here are some quote for those who are still trying to get his/her lover.


  • “Some of us think holding on makes us strong; but sometimes it is letting go "
  • “How do you say goodbye to someone who had you at hello?”
  • “It’s hard to tell your mind to stop loving someone,when you’re heart still does.”
  • “The saddest love is to love someone, to know that they still want you, but the circumstances don’t let you have them.”
  • “Looking back, I have this to regret, that too often when I loved, I did not say so.”

  • You never know what you have until you lose it, and once you lose it, you can never get it back.
  • The worst way to miss someone is when they are right beside you and yet you know you can never have them.
  • Love is missing someone whenever you’re apart, but some how feeling warm inside because you’re close in heart.
  • I might not get to see you as often as I’d like, I may not get to hold you in my arms at night, but deep in my heart I know that it’s true. No matter what happens… I will always love you.
  • I’m holding on to something that used to be there hoping it will come back, knowing it won’t.
  • If you love someone more then anything, then distance only matters to the mind, not to the heart.
  • I want to be with you tonight, tomorrow, and today it can’t happen now but it will someday.
  • Nothing hurts more then waiting since I don’t even know what I’m waiting for anymore.
  • And if you were to say ‘come with me’, even now I might go.
  • I have waited for you for 2 years and I will wait for you for the rest of my life. Even if that means I have to give you up for the rest of my life, I will wait for you. I love you that much and nothing will ever change that.
  • Can miles truly separate you…? If you want to be with someone you love, aren’t you already there?
  • You know you love someone when the mere thought of losing them brings you to tears.
  • I wish that I could hold you now… I wish that I could touch you now… I wish that I could talk to you… be with you somehow.
  • Distance between two hearts is not an obstacle… rather a beautiful reminder of just how strong true love can be.
  • A lot of people walk in and out of my life, but… you’re one of the only ones I ever really wanted to stick around.
  • Just because I moved on doesn’t mean I won’t be here if you change your mind.
  • Maybe he’s doing the same thing as me… maybe he wants so bad to call me, but just won’t because I haven’t called him… then again, maybe I shouldn’t fill myself with false hope that he might just be missing me like I’m missing him.
  • You asked me what was wrong, I smiled and said nothing, when you turned around and a tear came down and I whispered to myself… everything is.
  • I sit here and wonder if you’ll ever understand just how much of me belongs to you.
  • I don’t miss you: I miss the person I thought you were.
  • I’d be happy to come back to you… except it was you that went away.
  • I think its time I let you go… and that is hard to do because part of me will be in love with you for the rest of my life.
  • Good-bye’s make you think. They make you realize what you’ve had and what you’ve lost, and what you’ve taken for granted.
  • Good-bye is only truly painful if you know you’ll never say hello again.
  • Never long for anyone from the past. There is a reason why they never made it to your future.
  • Goodbyes always hurt whether it’s the right thing to do or not.
  • We’ll do what we gotta do, see what we gotta see, and if in the end we end up together, then we’ll know it was meant to be.
  • Late at night when all the world is sleeping, I stay up and think of you… and I wish on a star that somewhere you’re thinking of me, too.
  • Even now after all this time, you called me and wanted me I’d say “yes! It’s about time what took you so damn long!”.
  • You do something to me that I can’t explain, so would I be out of line if I said I miss you?
  • The few hours I spent with you are worth the thousand hours I spend without you.
  • This is out last goodbye… it’s over, just hear this and then I’ll go; you gave me more to live for then you’ll ever know.
  • Missing you isn’t the problem, it’s wondering if you’ll ever come back that’s killing me.


sweet sad truth


Love is falling in love.” There is no better word to describe it. It is indeed “falling” in love, and that’s what sucks about it.... You are tricked into it like an addictive facebook game, and then you are tripped, and you fall, and you keep falling in a seemingly endless .... And, like everything that falls, you eventually hit a bottom, and it will be hard and painful......Love is blind. You will walk into love without seeing it, and you will follow love without noticing it. ..Love hurts... When you fall in love, there are many times when your feelings are not returned, resulting in a painful in your heart....but stupid if you can’t take heartache then you can’t take life... Love hurts but everything does that doesn’t mean you should give up on it......Love is a many splendid thing love lifts you up where u belong all you need is love. Love is like oxygen. ... If love didnt exist we wouldn't be here...okeyh !!!!. Love is like a poison, which kills you slowly....which ...is ... No matter how hard you try, you can not escape from it... I never thought, I would fall in love in my life, when I fall, fall hardly....yes sure..i am......U ??? ...Love is hard to describe and yes it is a nice feeling, but it is the only thing that could break someone’s heart into a million pieces without even touching it…for me......Falling in love is a waste of time if the person you’re falling for isn’t worth it........


sources : google and purplelinky ,soundoflife .




notakakikudibibirmu....

stilll we ...have some question..
in the end of the day.....


Why love, when it will only hurt you?

… because it feels so GOOD to be loved. That’s why......

ChoWwwwwww......OOops !!!

that human NATURE...

sumtimes LOVE is SUCKS !!!

but believe me...

ALLAH knows better for us..

insyaALLAH


Monday, September 12, 2011

Me and my self



STEP ONE:
Spell your name with the title of songs.
N -not me ????
O -Ooh ibu..????
R – Rest of my Life
A – All or Nothing

( T.T still figure out this Step ...)

STEP TWO:
– Name : Nora
– Birth date: 29 dec
– Nickname: Ejay ,Zla @ D
– Eye Color: Dark Brown
– Horoscope : Capricorn
STEP THREE:
– The shoes you wore today: Sandal
– Your weaknesses: family
– Your fear(s): darkness
– Your perfect pizza: Extra cheese
– Goal you’d like to achieve: good job
STEP FOUR:
– Your best physical feature: eyes
– Your bedtime: hheheh NO comment
– Most missed memory: when I’m small
STEP FIVE:
This Or That ?
– Pepsi or Coke: vanilla Coke yeh!
– McDonald’s or Burger King: McDonald's
– Adidas or Nike: adidas
– Lipton Ice Tea or Nestea: Lipton Ice Tea plus lemon flavour
– Chocolate or Vanilla: Choco….!!!
– Cappuccino or coffee: any of it
STEP SIX:
Do you ?
– Smoke: No
– Curse: No but I believe in Qada & Qadar
 ..what goes around comes around ;)
– Sing: yehh….
– Dance: no
– Take a shower everyday: ya…why asking :p ?
– Have a crush: Yes
– Do you think you’ve been in love?: Indeed….love love
– Want to go to college: already graduated
– Like(d) high school: yes
– Want to get married: yes !!!!
– Get motion sickness: Yes
– Think you’re attractive: No,
– Think you’re a health freak: Yeah :D
– Get along with your parents: always
STEP SEVEN:
In the past month…
– Gone to the mall: YES
– Eaten an entire box of Oreos: YES
– Eaten Sushi: haven’t try
– Been on stage: ya , for dedicate a poem
– Gone skating: NOPE
– Made homemade cookies: NO
– Gone Skinny dipping: NO
– Stolen anything: NO
STEP EIGHT:
Ever…
– Played a game that required removal of clothing: Not interested
– If so, was it mixed company:
- Flashed anyone:No
– Been beaten up: Yes by my daddy when I’m small to educate me
– Shoplifted: NO
STEP NINE:
– Age you hope to be married: 27@28 YES…100x
– Numbers of Children: below 4
– Describe your Dream Wedding: garden wedding
– What country would you most like to visit?: New Zealand or Aussie
winter @ auturm season
STEP TEN:
In the opposite sex..
– Best eye color?: Original
– Best hair color?: Brownish…haven’t colour ma hair…
– Short hair or long hair?: I like both :)
– Height: I’m not taller
STEP ELEVEN:
– Number of people I could trust with my life: below 10
– Number of CDs that I own: don’t know where I put it
– Number of tattoos: Never
– Number of piercings: Never
Personal Quiz
– Who were you with yesterday?: My sister
– What woke you up this morning?: My sister
– Where are you?: Infront if my tivo. :)
– Is tomorrow going to be a good day?
: Well ,I wish tomorrow would be better than today :)
– Do you like anybody?: Depends..
THE PAST
– Ever thrown up in public?:No
– Passed out because of alcohol?: NEVER
– What’s on your mind RIGHT NOW?: JOB and my GUNDUT =p
THE FUTURE
– What kind of home would you like?: Home that full with LOVE and CARE
– What do you want to be when you grow up ? already grow up..
– Where do you see yourself in 5 years?: Get married with sum1 that I LOVE and have kids..
IN GENERAL
– Do you like candy necklaces?: Euwww
– When was the last time you fell over or ran into something?: Last week…
– Do you listen to music every day?: Yes
– Do you still go trick or treating?: No
– What was the last thing you ate?: hotDog
– Are you a fast typer?: i think I'm quite good….
– Whats your favorite type of soda?:No idea
– Have you ever moved?: Yes
– Have you ever won an award?: No
– Are you listening to music right now?: yes, I do by colbie
– How long ’till your birthday?: 3 months to go!
– When was the saddest time in your whole life?: don’t want 2 remember
– What time is it?: Time Less
– Do you use ebay to buy or sell?: Nope
– Who makes you mad?: Myself
– Have you ever heard a song written about you?: I wish but no…
– Something you want to happen in 2015?: My own Husband
– Honestly, do you miss 2008?: Yessss
HONESTY SECTION
1. Honestly, who's your first date?: Can't recall…who??? (T.T)
2. Honestly, what's on your mind?: my BUNNY
3. Honestly, what are you doing right now?: mumbling with my MOM
4. Honestly, have you done something bad today?: No
5. Honestly, who is the last person you talked to on the phone?: GUNDUT
6. Honestly, are you jealous of someone right now?: Never…
7. Honestly, what makes you mad most of the time? : My anger
8. Honestly, do you bite your nails?: long time ago yes I did ..ngeee
9. Honestly, have you had an eating disorder?: No..but I wish…too haha
10. Honestly, do you want to see someone this very moment?: hell YES!
11. Honestly, are you keeping a big secret now?: Not really ..huh
12. Honestly, do you have a friend you don’t actually like?: we all do.
13. Honestly, are you in nerd?: sometimes…it sexy okeyh :P
14. Honestly, do you get up in the middle of the night and eat?: always !
15. Honestly, do you like anyone?: YES
16. Honestly, does anyone like you?: I guess SO…???ummph???
17. Honestly ,have u ever having illegal sex...? : NEVER

ANGER SECTION
1. What do you do when you’re mad?: I'll CRY …
2. What’s the worst thing you’ve done when you were mad?: I'll scream…@sea
3. Ever made anyone cry when you were mad?: Yup…
4. Do you swear when you’re mad?: NO…istighfar..byk2….
CRYING SECTION
1. When was the last time you actually cried?: Last nite, ummph
2. Ever cried yourself to sleep?: YES…always…juz happen
3. Do certain songs make you cry?: yes…the hardest thing by 98 degree
And have YOU ever by Brandy ….huhuk…
4. What usually makes you cry?: my past experience..
‘but in the end
let go...it anyway...
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effy so beautiful....now..
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sumtimes...
we haven't know what is in her/he shoe..
doakan kan semoga dia berubah.....

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